It's All in the Head!!!

I know, not just women do this, but why do people (and I’m not saying who… you know who you are) build an entire fantasy relationship, even before they asked a chick out (or dude whatever)? Do they know what kind of pressure that puts on a relationship? By the time you finally get into a relationship with that other person, the two of you are starting out on two different pages. Where one is ready to settle down with the marriage, kids and white picket fence (having lived the entire awkward getting to know your quirks stage in their head) the other is still stumbling to get a feel on predicting the other’s faces and mystery grunts and groans.